A man has shocked everyone online by listing the ‘three choices’ he has after confessing that he is no longer a fan of his wife.
The anonymous man posted on Mumsnet seeking advice and garnered hundreds of comments.
In the post, the man claims to be asking for advice from women (hence his query to Mumsnet).
He explains that his wife is complaining that he never compliments her, but the truth of the matter is that he doesn’t like her.
The man added: “I can think of several options:
“I can tell her what she wants to hear, even if it’s not sincere.
“I can do what I’m doing now – be kind, but don’t say things I don’t mean.
“I can ask for a divorce.”
The anonymous poster said he is currently working on option two, being nice to his wife but not telling her that he likes her because he doesn’t want to say things that aren’t true.
He added: “I struggle to say nice things that I don’t really believe in.”
After the post received a lot of comments, the man provided the user with some additional information and said he had spoiled his wife but was no longer attracted to her.
He also stated, “The hard truth is that without the kids (5 & 8) we would have broken up a long time ago.”
He wants women to suggest which of the three approaches to take in the future.
While it’s common for long-term relationships to lose their spark over time, his three picks have been divisive in the forum’s comments section.
Many people suggested he should divorce her if there was no way to fix it, one user wrote: “If you really feel that way and can’t find your way back then do the kind and tell her and leave, even though it may break. Her heart is in the long run, she is free to find someone who will like her for who she is.”
“Divorce. This will eat away at her.” Answered another person.
Others suggested the man have an honest conversation with his wife before making any rash decisions, one commented; “Perhaps at some point, you imagined she would marry her? Poor girl. I’ll be honest and tell her how you feel. Do you love her?”
Another user said: “You can compliment her personality, her selfless actions work in your favor. Her motherhood skills if you have kids.”
A third wrote: “Just because you don’t ‘favourite’ her doesn’t mean you can’t compliment her on a job well done, a nice outfit, affirmation of her, etc.”
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https://www.the-sun.com/lifestyle/4562994/husband-doesnt-fancy-wife-three-ways-to-fix-marriage/ Man admits he doesn’t love his wife anymore and suggests three ways to fix his marriage and it’s completely divided opinion