IF YOU have been with your partner for over a decade, you may think you know everything about them.
But this woman got the shock of her life when she found out her husband was keeping a huge secret.
This Reddit user shared that his wife is threatening divorce after finding out about his secret children.
After dating for 12 years and having three children together, the couple seemed like the perfect family.
But his doting wife was completely unaware that before they met her husband had donated his sperm to one of his classmates.
After a pile of legal papers, the user got wind that his classmate and her wife had had a baby.
He claims he completely forgot about it until he came across it with his wife over 20 years later.
“Your son looks EXACTLY like me, to the point where it was awkward.
“Your daughter looks like my sister, they introduced us, it was awkward but enjoyable. My wife was completely blind,” he admitted.
The user’s wife couldn’t believe he would keep such a big secret from her, even after he signed a contract saying he wouldn’t talk about it.
“She’s really struggling with the fact that our kids have siblings.
“I try to tell her that they are not my children and their mothers mean literally nothing to me.”
Despite their best efforts, the Reddit user’s wife was furious at the discovery and felt betrayed.
Her husband said, “I take every reaction she throws at me because I understand that she is shocked and upset.”
Other users couldn’t believe he kept such a big secret from his wife for over a decade.
“If I had known my husband had donated sperm, I wouldn’t mind – if he had known it resulted in a child and hadn’t mentioned it to me, I would have felt hurt and lied to myself.”
Another added, “The biological fathering of children strikes me as one of those big life events that should be revealed sometime in 12 years.”
Finally, a third said: “With the advent of DNA ancestry kits, I think telling an SO is something at this point, otherwise they might be overlooked down the road.”
https://www.the-sun.com/lifestyle/4987350/donated-sperm-and-wife-found-out/ I donated my sperm and didn’t tell my wife, she found out I have 2 biological children and is ANGRY