BUILDING and maintaining a healthy relationship is not always as easy as you think.
Sometimes you can forget the key to make it work.
However, one relationship expert reminded her followers that it’s all about getting back to the fundamentals.
inside videotapesThis expert begins by revealing what is constantly left behind when creating healthy relationships: patience.
Today, everyone assumes that if things weren’t done at the speed of light, they wouldn’t be done.
While it can be a way of dealing with some aspects of life, it doesn’t necessarily work in relationships.
“When it comes to building healthy relationships, healing, growing, having tough conversations and building trust in a relationship takes time,” she says.
“If your partner is willing to heal and have tough times together, rather than apart, then we owe it to our partners to be patient through this process,” she suggests.
“Healing and growing takes time, and we often underestimate the power of patience on ourselves and our partners in those times.”
After all, “the biggest transformation takes time,” says the expert.
After she posted the video, one person shared his current experience with his current partner.
“It’s crazy. She asked me to be patient. However, we are far apart? What should I do,” one person asked.
The expert responded with some wise advice: “It sounds cliché, but focus on YOU! Believe in yourself and your power to attract whatever means.
“Unfortunately, we can’t force everything.”
While this relationship expert is teaching people how to stay in love, another courageous woman shared how One of the worst first dates came when the guy said she was ‘too fat’ for him.
After meeting her girlfriend online, they decided it was time to meet in person for the first time.
Things were going well until after about five minutes of starting a conversation.
“We talked for about five minutes and he looked over at me and said, ‘hey – to be honest, I don’t really feel a connection’.”
Naturally, she stepped back slightly and asked if he wanted to leave or continue with the meal.
To his surprise, he suggested they continue, which made her uncomfortable.
However, she remains optimistic and thinks she can build a friendship out of this. Unfortunately, the day didn’t get better.
She continued: “We sat down at our table and I took off my coat and he just looked at me.
“He said, ‘yes, I think so.'”
She asked him to be more specific. He continued: “Fitness and being healthy are really an important part of my life.”
After she did not fully understand his point of view.
He added: “Wow, you’re too fat for me.”
She explained: “[Those were] his exact words. Is you. Too. Fat. Because. Me. What? Any.”
As one would expect, she got up and left shortly after.
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